Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual by Christina Abernathy

Author:Christina Abernathy [Abernathy, Christina]
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Published: 2011-01-13T04:17:53.141000+00:00

What To Look For In a Submissive

Beyond mere availability and erotic compatibility, what qualities should a dominant look for in a potential slave? Here Miss Abernathy must admit to a certain prejudice. For many dominants, the intellectual acumen of a slave and his or her spiritual development are relatively unimportant. Not so for me. I am simply uninterested in a slave with whom I cannot carry on a lively conversation. In fact, my personal list of required qualities begins with "highly verbal." Clearly; certain roles require specific skills: it would be foolish to employ a cook who burns water. Half the pleasure of owning a slave is in the training, however - so if what you want is only a cook, call an agency and hire a cook.

If what you want is an accomplished chef who has a foot fetish or who can recite Yeats while being caned or who is willing and able to learn French so that she can accompany you to the film festival at Cannes, that is a slave.

In general, though, I believe that all slaves should exhibit some basic qualities. A slave should be sincere, loyal, discreet, clean, modest, honest, grateful, intelligent (that is, able to learn what is required for her position), respectful of herself and others, observant, attentive, and ethical.

In addition to these basic qualities, a dominant may require other characteristics, such as physical attractiveness, strength or stamina, specific sexual traits, a pleasant voice (particularly important for slaves to be voice-trained), social adaptability; or specific technical skills (construction, sewing, writing, accounting and the like).

I would like to say a word about a particular phenomenon that may arise between submissive and dominant. You will remember, no doubt, the urgency with which Severin pursued his Mistress, Wanda, in Venus In Furs. What you may not recall is her initial reluctance to fulfill his fantasy. It is possible to read Venus In Furs as the story of a would-be slave who is submissive only to his own fantasies. Gregor (as Severin was called while in service to his lady) is a textbook example of a pushy submissive who "tops from the bottom." I do not wish to imply that a real-life submisive should have no input into a contract or the ways in which it is carried out, but there is a qualitative difference between a dominant who enters into a contract freely - who indeed will most often initiate it - and one who is bullied into adopting a "dominant" position by a needy submissive. Gregor created a monster in Wanda, one with whom he quickly became dissatisfied. I refer to the tendency to bully people into dominance as "Gregor Syndrome"; individuals afflicted with it should be avoided.

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